May the Best Man Win
by Z. R. Ellor
- Publication Date:
- January 1st, 2021
- Publisher:
- Roaring Brook Press
- ISBN-13:
- 9781250625120
- ISBN-10:
- 1250625122
- Pages:
- 288
Why May the Best Man Win Has Been Challenged
Objectors have mainly pushed back on how openly the novel portrays a same-sex teen relationship and its matter-of-fact approach to a transgender main character, arguing both require parental gatekeeping rather than open shelf access. See more ↓
Challenged or banned in 2 states across 2 school districts.
Overview
Z. R. Ellor's May the Best Man Win follows a transgender high school junior whose ordinary autumn plans are upended when his ex-boyfriend decides to run against him for Homecoming King. What begins as a petty rivalry rooted in a recent breakup quickly becomes a referendum on who gets to be seen, celebrated, and believed in by their community.
Ellor uses the familiar architecture of a school election story — campaign posters, shifting alliances, a skeptical student body — to frame a more personal story about a teenager negotiating visibility on his own terms. The contest for a sash and a crown becomes a proxy for larger questions about belonging that the protagonist can't simply opt out of.
The novel keeps its tone light and its pacing brisk, favoring the rhythms of romantic comedy over message-driven earnestness, even as it takes seriously the emotional stakes of its central relationship and its central character's place within his own life.
Identity, Competition, and the Shape of Teen Romance
At its core, the book is interested in how young people perform identity in public spaces that weren't built with them in mind — a school hallway, a gymnasium, a ballot. By putting a trans protagonist at the center of a distinctly mainstream teen ritual, Ellor asks what it means to claim ordinary milestones rather than be defined solely by the obstacles around them.
The novel also sits within a broader wave of YA fiction that reframes trans characters as protagonists of genre stories — comedies, romances, mysteries — rather than as subjects of issue-driven narratives about hardship alone. That shift has made the book a point of reference in discussions about how queer and trans experiences are represented in literature aimed at teenagers, and whether such stories are best understood as inclusive coming-of-age fiction or as something requiring special scrutiny before reaching young readers.
Why May the Best Man Win Has Been Challenged
Much of the scrutiny directed at the novel centers on its unguarded treatment of a teenage romantic relationship between two boys, one of them transgender, including the emotional and physical intimacy that accompanies a breakup and reconciliation arc. Critics who have sought its removal from schools and libraries have generally objected to this content as inappropriate for the age group, framing the relationship itself, rather than any single scene, as the source of concern.
A second recurring objection concerns the book's matter-of-fact handling of gender identity. Some challenges argue that presenting a transgender protagonist's experience without caveat or cautionary framing normalizes concepts they believe should be introduced to minors only with parental oversight, if at all. Supporters of the book counter that this same directness is what makes it valuable to trans and questioning readers who rarely see themselves depicted as the romantic lead in an otherwise lighthearted story. The dispute has reached school boards and library committees in two states and two districts tracked in this catalog, reflecting the broader national debate over which stories about gender and sexuality belong on shelves accessible to teenagers.
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Banned in Schools
Banned or challenged in 2 states across 2 school districts.
Nation 1 district
Texas 1 district
- Katy Independent School District Banned by Restriction