Cover of Date Me, Bryson Keller

Date Me, Bryson Keller

by Kevin van Whye

2020 Random House Children's Books 336 pages English
Publication Date:
January 1st, 2020
Publisher:
Random House Children's Books
ISBN-13:
9780593126035
ISBN-10:
0593126033
Pages:
336

Why Date Me, Bryson Keller Has Been Challenged

Critics have taken issue with the book primarily because its central relationship is between two teenage boys, framing the same-sex romance itself — rather than any single scene — as the core objection. See more ↓

Challenged or banned in 1 state across 1 school district.

Overview

Kevin van Whye's debut novel follows Kai Sheridan, a closeted high schooler who watches Bryson Keller, the school's confidently out and popular basketball star, accept a new dare every Monday: date whoever asks him first, for one week only. When Kai finds himself on the receiving end of the dare almost by accident, he agrees on the condition that no one else finds out — not even Bryson.

What starts as a low-stakes bet complicates quickly. Kai has to navigate a fake-dating arrangement while keeping his sexuality hidden from his friends and family, all while genuine feelings creep into a situation he'd told himself was temporary. Bryson, for his part, turns out to be more perceptive and more vulnerable than his easy popularity suggests.

The novel moves at the brisk, banter-driven pace typical of contemporary YA romance, using the structure of a weekly dare to build tension between Kai's private fear and his growing certainty about what — and who — he wants.

Identity, Timing, and the Weight of Being Seen

Underneath its rom-com premise, the book is really a story about timing: the gap between being ready to be known by one person and being ready to be known by everyone. Kai's arc isn't framed as a single dramatic revelation but as a series of smaller decisions about who gets access to a part of himself he's still working out how to hold. Van Whye contrasts this with Bryson, who is already out, to explore how visibility can mean different things depending on family, community, and timing rather than courage alone.

The book arrived amid a wave of YA romances centering queer teen leads in stories that prioritize charm and happy endings over trauma, part of a broader shift in the genre toward normalizing gay relationships as simply one more flavor of first love rather than an issue to be resolved. Its lightness is arguably the point: the stakes are prom, secrets, and a bet gone sideways, not survival.

Why Date Me, Bryson Keller Has Been Challenged

A complaint brought before a school board argued that the novel's depiction of a same-sex teen relationship, including its physical affection between the two male leads, was inappropriate for the age group shelving it and amounted to promoting a lifestyle rather than simply telling a story. Related objections have centered on the book's frank handling of a closeted teenager's inner conflict, with some parents contending that material addressing sexual orientation belongs in a parental conversation rather than a school library shelf. Others have pushed back on the romantic content itself — kissing, dating, and the emotional intensity of a first relationship — as too mature for younger readers regardless of the characters' genders. In this catalog, the title has been documented as challenged or banned in 1 state and 1 school district.

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Banned in Schools

Banned or challenged in 1 state across 1 school district.

Texas 1 district